Interview with Kurt, the Rosas5 clubmaster
Kurt is Swiss, born in Zurich one day in October 1952. With 17 years away from home and lives a year in Amsterdam where dishwasher works. Go back and thanks to a family enters the Banking and functions of managers prepared for from the beginning. Is sent to London to learn English the years 1974/75 came to Spain in the 76/77 to learn Spanish and in 1979 is controlled by the Bank to New York to learn the "way of life" and "know how" Wall Street. Swiss Re is very small and does decide to leave his post as Heritage manager and employee of the Zurich Stock Exchange to return to Barcelona to play. Among various business and other activities over 30 years, opens the Social Club Rosas5 . This will gives himself the most precious gift for the day I turn 50 and opens two days later, in October 2002.
1-Resumenos briefly who is Kurt.
In his private life is single, not by conviction but by circumstances and boringly hetero sexual life. From a very young man called attention to eroticism in its many facets and especially sadomasochism as it was then. Has undergone transsexual who has lived for six years as Mistress Deborah, first in the "Palace of Sado" under the special expertise of Michelle Maitresse and after a year with its own dungeon in Barcelona Diagonal. In 87 throws all skirts and pants buy again. Also buy a horse and goes to live in the Costa Brava where he meets his slave, who lives with him until suffering a car accident in which he died, and living in Barcelona again.
2-For starters, make a definitive explanation is BDSM
First things easier: BD = B & D or Bondage & Discipline, Sadism and Masochism = SM, SD = Domination and Submission.
There are people who seek to undergo in the erotic relationship. Puts them saying, "I'm yours, do what you want me" The downside to this is the dominant control over who eroticized submit. This would be DS.
They become dominant and submissive to one another? Well I hope that lots of sex and this can happen to tie the submissive dominant and start to provoke, seduce, put a hundred and frustrate the submissive, finally, with a little luck, meeting you. This would be bondage and domination. Others say that the submissive has been naughty, he tied and punished, it would be bondage and discipline. Or BD.
Then there are those who want to introduce whips, clamps, needles and other instruments to cause pain. Good pain, which excites the masochist would MS. An experienced sadist masochist can lead to an ecstasy never lived through the pain.
Very often, if not always, these activities overlap and were called SM or Sex Magic. True, it was right or BDSM BDSM today.
These games are agreed between them and the person who receives passive safety word to pronounce it stops all activity of a second to another. The word security is important not only to curb the dominant but also to send you any wrong, oblivious to the game.
3 - What is the difference between concepts of "BDSM", "fetish" and "sadomasochism"?.
Sadomasochism is the old definition of what is now called BDSM. The fetish is an object or eroticize. Fetishistic behavior can be caused by one or more objects, materials, or by parts of the body of the couple.
4-Recommend 3 movies and 3 books on BDSM outstanding
The story of "O" Just Jaeckin, 1975, 105 minutes in its original version
Nine and a half weeks, Adrian Lyne, 1986
Secretary of Steven Shainberg, 2002
BDSM, Jay Wiseman, ISBN 84-7290-264-1
Wardrobes Leather, Olga Viñuales, ISBN 978-84-7290-345-6
Goddess, Juan Abreu, ISBN 84-8310-457-1 (inspired Rosas5 nights at the scene and carried out as the dominant player)
5 - What is the Rosas5 club, and does it do?
Rosas5 Social Club was founded with the goal of further search and exchange of experiences BDSM and welcomes all who wish to participate in this form of understanding relationships.
It is the ideal meeting place (c / 5 in Barcelona Athens) for those who share these concerns by expanding opportunities for relationship while implementing our fantasies. To this end regularly organize BDSM activities, symposia and panel discussions, parties and other activities, taking care that their variety and frequency are affordable to the vast majority of the members.
The social club will be characterized by an aesthetic appropriate, with an elegant decor and comfortable to assist the creation of that climax that makes us feel good and comfortable. Our partners will have a cozy bar, comfortable spaces for lectures and readings, a special room for the realization of his fantasies, changing rooms where you can easily change those parties requiring special attire, and all services required to develop BDSM facets in the environment we want.
We offer a salute to all those who want to start or are looking to expand its information about the BDSM world, multiple forms of expression, communication, and the wonderful and enjoyable experiences to be drawn from this relationship. We will make you feel at home, they find in our store your favorite corner and that our environment will help them get rid of anxieties and fears often unfounded and unnecessary.
7 - What is it you can make the practice of BDSM?
First of all the BDSM opens a whole range of possibilities to enjoy the benefit while minimizing boredom in the couple's sexual practices. Necessarily increase the interest in tastes, trends and fantasies and verbalization with the partner. You learn to talk about things in our society are still considered taboo. It helps to know yourself and your partner by analyzing the reactions, because not only is consensual it is going to do, but also discussed the outcome of the session. Last but not least it helps to think with your head and not be swayed by carnal desire.
8-Tell is the day of 24/7
It is proposed that July 24 is the International Day BDSM. Playing with the initials 24/7 as we know, means submission for 24 hours, 7 days a week. This proposal has been and is being sent and studied by several international organizations to make it known to all practitioners of BDSM. Basically it is a day when we call to practice defending sadomasochism and sexual freedom of the individual.
9-There is some bad image in the world of BDSM. Tell us which are the worst clichés about BDSM that you met there?
Perhaps one of the worst topics was that BDSM is like a textbook, explaining how to torture women for sexual pleasure of men. Assuming that consensual sadomasochistic relationships are always passive and that the person has a safe word to stop immediately any activity on the part of the asset is clear that one should not talk about torture. If in addition we consider that there is a vast number of men submissive or masochistic clear that being active or passive is not kind.
Since Kraft Ebbing neurologist and psychiatrist who invented the terms "sadism" and "masochism" Freud and neurologist declared as a disease have been written dozens of books, by many different psychiatrists, psychologists and therapists .. Now, all based on his patients. Many people who fail to assume their way of enjoying the sexualidad.En 1994 the American Psychiatric Association and through its diagnostic and statistical manual DSM IV_ page 529, 302.83 removes the section titled "sadomasochism" as a sexual disorder and is declared as a paraphilia, which finally is no longer considered disease.
However, our society tends to consider all the unknown, which departs from the rules as a rare and dangerous.
10-The economic crisis has ended Gripo of production and filming porn. Can you think of any suggestions on how to address the current situation?
Personally I do not think that the near cancellation of the porn production is due to the economic crisis but to excess and especially to the poor quality of some productions. Over the years he was on the jury of "Stiletto" FICEB the reward has not been a single film produced in Spain. I can not say much about the porn sex merely vulgar and current, as I consider it extremely boring and does not call me for anything. Perhaps the Japanese model, which mixes bondage with sex (Haruki Yukimura) could open new markets. I have spoken with several porn directors and should know they can count on my help.
12 - What is the difference between adopting the submissive role and adopting the dominant role?
While the submissive enjoys giving the dominant powers you can drive to take advantage of its dominance, leading to submissive to ecstasy as agreed previously. Very consider is the fact that, as more submissive delivery increases the responsibility of the parent.
On the other hand, is a dominant topic of women and the FemDom movement that there can be in a relationship saodmasoquista penetration. Precisely in relationships where the weight is in the domination / submission sex daily is an indispensable factor.
However, the dominant woman often is not the way to consider using the man for sexual pleasure and into the practices of forced abstinence through the chastity belt that penalizes any erection with pain. It should be noted that prolonged use of the chastity belt leads man to impotence.
13-With the growing rise of the so-called "Fetish Party's" Tell us, in that improve?
Personally I am not a lover of fetish parties or sadomasochistic practices in public and even less in the group. Experience with several submissive and masochistic over the years has shown me that the sessions more intense and beneficial for both are held in a very small little group or alone.
A professional master endless sporadic parties organized in the submissive men who admit no partner making sure customers for the future. Behind the large fetish party, held abroad, with strict vestimienta code, there is usually a manufacturer of such vestimienta behind.
I believe more in the social and reunion with people who have not seen in years, so I do not usually organize them in my club. As soon as the filling of the pockets takes second or third place, the parties gain in quality.
14 - Do you think the porn industry has been reflected in a coherent way the world of BDSM?
As a rule the porn is not guided by consistency but to create morbidity. The very small market unviable Castilian speaker quality production on BDSM. As I say above, I believe more in a mixture of soft BDSM practices, mixed with sex.
15-Tell us your impression of the work being done in EstrellasDelPorno.com
I think that the dissemination of information available to the interested poneis is very important. Moreover, I must confess that I do not know enough to give a coherent view. This if I promise to study in depth your work and I get at your disposal for issues that may require knowledge and experience in BDSM practices.
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